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Therapy approach

​I work using a type of therapy called Transactional Analysis, but I call it TA for short.

 

TA is a talking therapy that explores how our personality has been shaped by our early experiences, decisions and beliefs. In practice, that means I'm really interested in your childhood and upbringing... not to dwell on the past or place blame on others, but to notice the familiar patterns that show up in your life today, and understand why they're still there.

In TA, we don't just focus on the symptoms...we really get to know you. We explore why you think, feel, and behave the way you do, and why certain patterns stick around even though they aren't actually working for you as an adult. Often it's because they once helped you to cope or feel safe, so a part of you still holds onto that familiar way of being. Making sense of that gives us awareness and the choice to do things differently... without criticising ourselves along the way if it doesn't always go to plan. Over time, we can start to show up far more authentically, feeling more at ease being who we want to be and reconnecting with what brings us joy in life.

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Book your free consultation below, or read on to learn more about how I work. 

How we work together

Every client is different, and each session can look different too. Some people arrive ready to dive straight in. Others need a lighter chat about coffee shops or the week's events before we get into the deeper stuff. It's natural to feel hesitant or unsure where to start, so we'll work at your pace.

I'm not the kind of therapist who sits back and nods. I talk, I ask questions, offer reflections, and gently challenge when it's helpful, while still leaving space for silence (and perhaps exploring if that silence makes you uncomfortable!). And if I misinterpret you, you're welcome to say "actually Katie, that's not quite it." I love learning about you, and I want to understand what's shaped your personality and who you are today.

Therapy with me isn't about quick fixes, getting things "right," or pushing yourself too far before you're ready. It's about building a collaborative relationship of trust, honesty, and shared goals. I know therapy can feel challenging, but what often surprises clients is that sometimes we might have a laugh or a fist-pump moment of celebration. This is about you and I getting to know each other, understanding who you are, and who you want to be.

 

If you're a parent or carer, click on the link below to read about my specialised support:

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This might feel familiar...

If you're someone who holds it together and looks "fine"... perhaps it's coming at a cost. It might be that you've tried the breathing techniques, journaling, or relaxation apps... but nothing quite seems to work and you're fed up of feeling this way.

 

You may notice:

  • A racing mind that doesn't have an off-switch, or feeling overwhelmed and "on edge"

  • Body tension, physical symptoms, or feeling disconnected from yourself

  • Not always knowing what you're feeling in the first place, let alone how to say it out loud

  • Overthinking, panicking about the "what ifs," and always planning three steps ahead

  • Struggling with change, preferring to be in control and know what's happening next

  • Finding yourself snapping, shouting, or reacting in ways that don't feel like you

  • Getting defensive, or finding it hard to let your guard down and express how you feel

  • Working hard to keep the peace, often saying yes to things when you want to say no

  • Constantly doing, despite feeling exhausted... but still never feeling like it's enough

It's really common to get stuck and not know what to do next, especially if you're used to being the person who usually finds solutions to life's problems. Therapy provides a space for you to slow down and address why you feel this way, not just how to cope.

Changes clients often begin to notice

Change often comes in gradual shifts that build over time, rather than a lightbulb moment (although these can happen too!)

You might begin to notice:

  • Being able to rest without that constant worry or nagging guilt

  • Slowing down enough to connect with your feelings, instead of letting them build up until you snap or spiral into overwhelm

  • Responding to the part of you that says "what if" with a bit more self-compassion, and much less criticism

  • Practising a little vulnerability with those closest to you, asking for help, and building relationships that feel more honest and open

  • Easing up on control, saying yes with a bit more spontaneity, and actually relaxing enough to enjoy things

  • Setting boundaries to protect your energy, instead of giving it all away

  • Still being able to do a good job or support others, but without needing the whole weekend to recover

The biggest thing I notice is clients begin to relax, even when life still feels challenging at times. They start to trust they're okay just as they are, not just when they're achieving, pleasing, or holding it all together... and with that comes more freedom, more spontaneity, and a lot more joy.

If this resonates, you can click the link below to book a free 20-minute consultation, or feel free to send me a message if you'd like to chat further.

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It's natural to have some questions before starting therapy.

Here are some of the most common questions I get asked, but if you still need more information, get in touch and I'll get back to you.

FAQ's

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contact@katiemcgillcounselling.com

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